1. Be cordial
because in most break ups there is always one sided bitterness is always one sided, one might feel as if she/ he was wronged. so when you bump into your ex especially when you are dating someone new be cordial and keep the conversation brief.with minimum inquires.
2.Don't go out of your way to be too friendly.
Be polite, answer their questions, and ask questions if you want to. Try to stay away from touchy topics, as both of you will still be upset; that is normal. Smile as much as possible. They will know you're upset, but it's good to act like you're not.
3.Make certain that you and your ex are in the right state of minds.
Meeting your ex when getting drunk or when in a poor emotional state makes it easy to slip back into old habits, old comfort zone
4. Stand still and engage in the conversation.
It is highly unlikely that this will develop into a lengthy heart-to-heart chat because your ex is probably about as thrilled to see you again as you are them. Seek to remain calm by not showing any outward signs of nervousness, such as fidgeting with your fingers or pulling your hair. Tell yourself that this encounter will be brief and that it will pass quickly, so remain calm and be polite.
5.Use humor to ease the tension of the situation.
Being humorous can help to ease your discomfort and defuse the tense atmosphere between both of you. Humor also allows you to keep a deliberate distance between the two of you because it's less likely to get intimate or angst-ridden when you're being funny.
6. Understand that they may have moved on if you haven't Do!.
Don't go running to the door and don't say anything negative about the new partner. Chances are they don't realize the mess they've walked into.
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