Saturday, 25 April 2015

The Stories That Really Matter

One of my favorite writers is J.R.R Tolkien, you may know of his works from the movie trilogy of the Hobbit and Lord of the Rings themed from his books. In one the books that is- lord of the rings; the two towers. A young hobbit, Mr. Frodo has been appointed with the quest of taking the ring to the mountain ,a quest he must accomplish or else evil will prevail. Sam who is Frodo’s friend and company on this journey, he makes a speech to  Frodo to give him courage  “It's like in the great stories, Mr. Frodo. The ones that really mattered. Full of darkness and danger they were. And sometimes you didn't want to know the end… because how could the end be happy? How could the world go back to the way it was when so much bad had happened? But in the end, it’s only a passing thing… this shadow. Even darkness must pass…”

In today’s First Reading, we see the beginnings of that mission in the testimony of Peter, whom the Lord appointed shepherd of His Church. Peter tells Israel’s leaders that the Psalm we sing today is a prophecy of their rejection and crucifixion of Christ. He tells the “builders” of Israel’s temple, that God has made the stone they rejected the cornerstone of a new spiritual temple, the Church.

Taking you back through the journey of Jesus Christ till his resurrection, we see his struggle, his pain and the great strength it must have taken him to die for our sins. As for us humans, we have weak moments of doubt just like Mr. Frodo but, courage we must take because the darkness is only a passing thing and most of all,  just like Jesus in laying down his life and taking it up again, he shows that’s he is the living testament that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Jesus, in today’s Gospel, says that He is the good shepherd the prophets had promised to Israel.
He is the shepherd-prince, who frees people from bondage of sin and gathers them into one flock, the Church, under a new covenant, made in His blood. Through the ministry of the Church, the shepherd still speaks and forgives sins and makes His body and blood present, that all may know Him in the breaking of the bread. It is a mission that will continue until all the world is one flock under the  shepherd.

Reflections

It is tales like that of Jesus that matters. By dying on the cross and rising from the dead through  resurrection, Jesus made it possible for us to know God and that God loves us.

Today is the Fourth Sunday of Easter also known as Vocation Sunday ,we take the time and pray for those who take up the call that they may continue to have the courage and strength to teach and preach the Catholic Ways .

Today, let us listen for His voice as He speaks to us in the Scriptures, and vow again to be more faithful followers. And let us give thanks for the blessings He bestows from His altar


Thursday, 20 November 2014

Rules of Engagement with Ex

1. Be cordial 
because in most break ups there is always one sided bitterness is always one sided, one might feel as if she/ he was wronged. so when you bump into your ex especially when you are dating someone new be cordial and keep the conversation brief.with minimum inquires.

2.Don't go out of your way to be too friendly.
Be polite, answer their questions, and ask questions if you want to. Try to stay away from touchy topics, as both of you will still be upset; that is normal. Smile as much as possible. They will know you're upset, but it's good to act like you're not.

3.Make certain that you and your ex are in the right state of minds.
Meeting your ex when getting drunk or when in a poor emotional state makes it easy to slip back into old habits, old comfort zone

4. Stand still and engage in the conversation.
It is highly unlikely that this will develop into a lengthy heart-to-heart chat because your ex is probably about as thrilled to see you again as you are them. Seek to remain calm by not showing any outward signs of nervousness, such as fidgeting with your fingers or pulling your hair. Tell yourself that this encounter will be brief and that it will pass quickly, so remain calm and be polite.

5.Use humor to ease the tension of the situation.
Being humorous can help to ease your discomfort and defuse the tense atmosphere between both of you. Humor also allows you to keep a deliberate distance between the two of you because it's less likely to get intimate or angst-ridden when you're being funny.

6. Understand that they may have moved on if you haven't Do!.
Don't go running to the door and don't say anything negative about the new partner. Chances are they don't realize the mess they've walked into.